Interviews > Published on January 28th, 2013

10 Questions with Erotica Writer Averil Dean

Averil Dean writes erotica. Now, a lot of writers may turn their nose up at that—after all, the genre isn't known for its wordplay. But there are shining stars in every genre, and damn, can Averil write. Next year her erotic psychological thriller, Tapestry of Scars, will be released by MIRA, with a second novel due out in January 2015. She's poised for big things. 

She's also the instructor of our very first erotica-writing class, Between the Sheets, In which she'll teach students how erotic scenes can be used as character development, in service to a larger story. And also, how to write sex like an adult. 

Here's your chance to get to know her. 

What was the first story you ever wrote, and what happened to it?

My first story was a novel called The Key, which was sold along with its sequel to a small ePublisher. Now and then I get a royalty check and can buy myself a milkshake.

When you sold your first piece of writing, how did you celebrate?

I didn't. Is it too late to start?

Tell us about your process: Pen, paper, word processor, human blood when the moon is full... how do you write?

Whatever gets the words on the page is fine with me. Usually I begin on paper. Very cheap paper and a cheap pen, the better to write without being too precious. My handwriting is awful and the pages are a mess, with words scratched out and indecipherable notes up the margins, lots of arrows pointing this way and that. I have discovered that the pages have to be typed up fairly soon after, or I won't remember what on earth I was trying to say. So it's usually the next day that I get them into the computer and do a rough first polish while I'm at it. I carry on that way until I have a full draft on my laptop, at which point I begin to revise. And revise. And revise...

What's the biggest mistake you've made as a writer?

Publishing too soon. Once the work is out there, you can't reel it back in. The problem, of course, is that you don't realize it's too soon until it's too late. At first you think everything you write is wonderful, you're seduced by the act of building a world and a cast of characters—with words alone! OMG!—and you imagine that readers can see the story as vividly as you do. Only later do you develop the proper levels of angst and self-loathing that help you produce something worthwhile.

What kind of catharsis did you achieve from your latest work?

Hmm, that's a good question. My latest book is unrelentingly dark and it hurt like hell to be mired in it all those months. After I had finished and received my first positive response, I sat down next to my bed and cried for hours. Out of relief, gratitude, pride? I'm still not sure. But everything since then has been a little easier.

Which fictional character would you most like to have a drink with, and why?

Alice in Wonderland. I want to go to the tea party.

Where do you buy your books?

I moved to Portland earlier this year. Portland, as in Powell's City of Books. Thank god there are pubs nearby where my husband can watch the game, because I'll be in there awhile.

How do you handle a bad review of your work?

With tears, alcohol and profanity. Usually in that order.

What's the worst advice you hear authors give writers?

Write what you know. What I know would span about two chapters and put even me to sleep. I believe we should write what surprises us, what we don't understand except at the deepest and least accessible levels. If you start with characters and situations that are unfamiliar, you leave yourself the space to work back to those universal truths.

WILDCARD: As someone who writes within the erotica genre, what are your thoughts on the impact and importance of Fifty Shades of Grey?

I'm not sure there's much long-term impact or importance in Fifty Shades. It's a product of the zeitgeist and that's something you really can't replicate. But it seems to me that the author has been bold in terms of writing what appeals to her personally. No holds barred, she's in it for the kinky young billionaire and the starry-eyed virgin. Sex! Money! Helicopters and bondage! Now, the books don't appeal to me, so I'll admit I haven't read them, but they are beloved by women all over the world who are thrilled to see their fantasies played out so thoroughly.

I think the lesson for writers is that we can and should go all the way with a piece of work. Be extreme in your characterizations. Play to your most extravagant self. If you think you shouldn't write it, do. That's where the good stuff is.

About the author

Rob Hart is the class director at LitReactor. His latest novel, The Paradox Hotel, will be released on Feb. 22 by Ballantine. He also wrote The Warehouse, which sold in more than 20 languages and was optioned for film by Ron Howard. Other titles include the Ash McKenna crime series, the short story collection Take-Out, and Scott Free with James Patterson. Find more at

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