PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:24am
Wasn't a neg when you try and breakdown a woman with high self-esteem?
Like compliment insults.
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:25am
"Wasn't a neg when you try and breakdown a woman with high self-esteem?"
That is what it sounded like to me. I still don't understand why that is a good thing to do. As stated, it seems really rude.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:27am
It is in a sense.
It's a good thing too.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:29am
@Panda No, its to bring down perceived value equal during the interaction. Like I said, I don’t feel the need to do it very often.....really insecure guys do it a lot in field. I would just rather be flirty and playful.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:31am
I think you just rewrote what I said in a nice way haha.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:32am
Ha! Maybe.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:34am
More of this frame control. Lol.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:35am
Yeah- this whole time has been frame control.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:15am
@Utah and Panda, I am already socialized, I find stong-willed women attractive, so shit test really aren't anything to me. Matter-of-fact my office is filled with them, and for months when I got here they threw everything at me. I just played around with them, and now, they have stopped with the shit-tests and having just started walking up and punching me, or pinching me, or grabbing me and wrestling around and such, kind of hilairious.
Side note- we should just start a PUA thread and stop taking over Desdemonas haha
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:25am
I don't know about that. Eventually Alien will show up and start seducing Diaz in a more effective way. Then the rest of us will probably feel bad.
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:26am
"started walking up and punching me, or pinching me, or grabbing me and wrestling around and such, kind of hilairious."
Please tell me you are not serious.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:30am
@Matt: Sounds like you and the Mexican construction workers are getting along quite well! You should tell alien your secrets.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:31am
Please tell me you are not serious."
Oh, Averydoll, you're rejoinging the conversation? LOL
Yeah, just happened, she came up behind, grabbed me around the chest and started trying to wrestle, IN THE OFFICE. I told her: "Whoa, that'll be fifty dollars. I don't give this away (motioning to me) for free." to which she punched me.
Also, I am listening to Sarah Mclachlan- Angel just came on and all I could think about was those sad commercials she does with the animals. SHE RUINED IT!
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:32am
@Utah: Yo soy mucho calienta.
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:33am
The women in your office clearly have emotional issues. Or their daddy's didn't love them or something. That is shameful.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:34am
@Matt: touche
@Avery: *daddies
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:34am
The women in your office clearly have emotional issues. Or their daddy's didn't love them or something. That is shameful."
Haha! Oh c'mon, you're telling me you're not fun, or you don't like to joke around? Maybe even wrestle every now and then? Well thats just sad.
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:37am
"@Avery: *daddies"
Damnit!!!
" you're telling me you're not fun"
It's what I have been trying to tell you all along. But, uh, no, I don't touch people I work with. That seems a little needy.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:37am
I hug my boss all the time. Baby need a new pair o' shoes.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:39am
That seems a little needy."\
You like to be in control don't you? And, its not needy, nothing wrong with joking around and having fun....as long as there are limits.
Also, speaking of PUA- "Where have all the cowboys gone" just started playing...ironic?
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:45am
"You like to be in control don't you?"
Yes.
"....as long as there are limits. "
And, wrestling is my limit, apparently. Although I do usually find I have better luck getting nice things from my male co-workers, I don't have to rub up against them to get them.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:47am
Although I do usually find I have better luck getting nice things from my male co-workers"
Ha! What a heartbreaker. I suppose my limit is different. I guess I am a little more open minded. Though if I were involved with someone it would be a little different I reckon.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:48am
"You like to be in control don't you?"
Yes."
<--- not surprised at all.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 9:51am
Dear Desdemona:
Welcome to LitReactor. Sometimes we write
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 10:03am
Sometimes we write"
I would write more if people would review my work. BOOM. That just happened!
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 10:11am
I already told you!
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 10:16am
Haha kidding dude, and you know I appreciate it.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 10:22am
You let me dig my way out from under this stack of blueprints and I'll see what I can do this afternoon.
Matt Attack
from Richmond, Va. is reading As I Lay Dying, William FaulknerFebruary 21, 2012 - 10:24am
Yeah no kidding, I just got to the end of my emails and have put out 3 fires.
R.Moon
from The City of Champions is reading The Last Thing He Wanted by Joan Didion; Story Structure Architect by Victoria Lynn Schimdt PH.D; Creating Characters by the editors of Writer's DigestFebruary 21, 2012 - 5:07pm
"Whoa, that'll be fifty dollars. I don't give this away (motioning to me) for free."
- dude, old and played out...
aliensoul77
from a cold distant star is reading the writing on the wall.February 21, 2012 - 5:15pm
I like cheese.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 5:17pm
Avery are you a feminist?
I'm not attacking you in any way. I'm just curious.
No, I don't mean the man-hating ones either.
aliensoul77
from a cold distant star is reading the writing on the wall.February 21, 2012 - 5:47pm
No, she just believes in the Earth Goddess Gaie and that all men are inferior to womankind.
Mellanie Blue
from Lewisberry, PA is reading The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan TaorminoFebruary 21, 2012 - 5:57pm
Thread offically hijacked.
@Alien - I like cheese as well.
@Utah - sometimes I write, too. In between ridiculous forum conversations and grilled cheese sandwiches.
Mellanie Blue
from Lewisberry, PA is reading The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan TaorminoFebruary 21, 2012 - 5:58pm
Also: it seems like some of you have studied psychology.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 6:04pm
Alien has a BA (badass) in it. I'm just crazy.
R.Moon
from The City of Champions is reading The Last Thing He Wanted by Joan Didion; Story Structure Architect by Victoria Lynn Schimdt PH.D; Creating Characters by the editors of Writer's DigestFebruary 21, 2012 - 6:07pm
Depends on your definition of psychology...
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:22pm
@Panda - I don't know what you mean by feminist. I beleive that women should have equal rights to men, and that we should have ownership and control over our own bodies. I'm generally against rape. But I don't sit around all day trying to think up schemes to dominate the world.
@Desdemona - I'm going to welcome you again, because I'm glad you posted again. Welcome!!
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:28pm
What do you mean generally?
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:30pm
I was being flip.
I'm completely against rape.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:37pm
I was just asking about the feminism thing. I have two friends who are somew
hat feminists. So I see them post a lot of feminism pictures and events. Not that you do that, but you remind me of both of them. I was just curious.
I'm just gonna look weird now.
avery of the dead
from Kentucky is reading Cipher SistersFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:41pm
I'm going to allow you to look weird. I guess I don't know what people mean when they say feminist most of the time. There are a lot of assumptions that go with that. I don't hate anyone else - at least not strictly because of their gender. I love men. I don't think women are superior to men. I think the world needs each of us, for more than just the obvious. But I don't think women are any less than men.
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Utah
from Fort Worth, TX is reading Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtryFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:43pm
Hey, is that a delorean?!
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 7:45pm
@Avery
I agree.
@Utah
Yes, yes it is haha.
Laramore Black
from Joplin, Missouri is reading Mario Kart 8February 21, 2012 - 8:04pm
Sometimes I feel like the other 2000 LitReactor profiles are just people we made up to talk to, because really, there is only like six of us on all of LR.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:10pm
Hahahaha look at the leaderboards. There's like 400 members, but the site has I think 1000 fans on Facebook. I see random people join and never see their names again.
Laramore Black
from Joplin, Missouri is reading Mario Kart 8February 21, 2012 - 8:15pm
Actually I'm pretty sure it's 2500 fans on Facebook. Some people on the workshop leaderboard may have just had a membership for a month as well. And if your profile is correct, you're the 3372nd profile.
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:16pm
Shit, yet there's only around 6 of use on here regularly.
I have no life though, that's my excuse.
Laramore Black
from Joplin, Missouri is reading Mario Kart 8February 21, 2012 - 8:17pm
The OP of this thread is in the five thousandth user range. Crazy stuff.
All the people reading our panda porn...
PandaMask
from Los Angeles is reading More Than HumanFebruary 21, 2012 - 8:18pm
Wasn't a neg when you try and breakdown a woman with high self-esteem?
Like compliment insults.
"Wasn't a neg when you try and breakdown a woman with high self-esteem?"
That is what it sounded like to me. I still don't understand why that is a good thing to do. As stated, it seems really rude.
It is in a sense.
It's a good thing too.
@Panda No, its to bring down perceived value equal during the interaction. Like I said, I don’t feel the need to do it very often.....really insecure guys do it a lot in field. I would just rather be flirty and playful.
I think you just rewrote what I said in a nice way haha.
Ha! Maybe.
More of this frame control. Lol.
Yeah- this whole time has been frame control.
@Utah and Panda, I am already socialized, I find stong-willed women attractive, so shit test really aren't anything to me. Matter-of-fact my office is filled with them, and for months when I got here they threw everything at me. I just played around with them, and now, they have stopped with the shit-tests and having just started walking up and punching me, or pinching me, or grabbing me and wrestling around and such, kind of hilairious.
Side note- we should just start a PUA thread and stop taking over Desdemonas haha
I don't know about that. Eventually Alien will show up and start seducing Diaz in a more effective way. Then the rest of us will probably feel bad.
"started walking up and punching me, or pinching me, or grabbing me and wrestling around and such, kind of hilairious."
Please tell me you are not serious.
@Matt: Sounds like you and the Mexican construction workers are getting along quite well! You should tell alien your secrets.
Oh, Averydoll, you're rejoinging the conversation? LOL
Yeah, just happened, she came up behind, grabbed me around the chest and started trying to wrestle, IN THE OFFICE. I told her: "Whoa, that'll be fifty dollars. I don't give this away (motioning to me) for free." to which she punched me.
Also, I am listening to Sarah Mclachlan- Angel just came on and all I could think about was those sad commercials she does with the animals. SHE RUINED IT!
@Utah: Yo soy mucho calienta.
The women in your office clearly have emotional issues. Or their daddy's didn't love them or something. That is shameful.
@Matt: touche
@Avery: *daddies
Haha! Oh c'mon, you're telling me you're not fun, or you don't like to joke around? Maybe even wrestle every now and then? Well thats just sad.
"@Avery: *daddies"
Damnit!!!
" you're telling me you're not fun"
It's what I have been trying to tell you all along. But, uh, no, I don't touch people I work with. That seems a little needy.
I hug my boss all the time. Baby need a new pair o' shoes.
You like to be in control don't you? And, its not needy, nothing wrong with joking around and having fun....as long as there are limits.
Also, speaking of PUA- "Where have all the cowboys gone" just started playing...ironic?
"You like to be in control don't you?"
Yes.
"....as long as there are limits. "
And, wrestling is my limit, apparently. Although I do usually find I have better luck getting nice things from my male co-workers, I don't have to rub up against them to get them.
Ha! What a heartbreaker. I suppose my limit is different. I guess I am a little more open minded. Though if I were involved with someone it would be a little different I reckon.
Yes."
<--- not surprised at all.
Dear Desdemona:
Welcome to LitReactor. Sometimes we write
I would write more if people would review my work. BOOM. That just happened!
I already told you!
Haha kidding dude, and you know I appreciate it.
You let me dig my way out from under this stack of blueprints and I'll see what I can do this afternoon.
Yeah no kidding, I just got to the end of my emails and have put out 3 fires.
"Whoa, that'll be fifty dollars. I don't give this away (motioning to me) for free."
- dude, old and played out...
I like cheese.
Avery are you a feminist?
I'm not attacking you in any way. I'm just curious.
No, I don't mean the man-hating ones either.
No, she just believes in the Earth Goddess Gaie and that all men are inferior to womankind.
Thread offically hijacked.
@Alien - I like cheese as well.
@Utah - sometimes I write, too. In between ridiculous forum conversations and grilled cheese sandwiches.
Also: it seems like some of you have studied psychology.
Alien has a BA (badass) in it. I'm just crazy.
Depends on your definition of psychology...
@Panda - I don't know what you mean by feminist. I beleive that women should have equal rights to men, and that we should have ownership and control over our own bodies. I'm generally against rape. But I don't sit around all day trying to think up schemes to dominate the world.
@Desdemona - I'm going to welcome you again, because I'm glad you posted again. Welcome!!
What do you mean generally?
I was being flip.
I'm completely against rape.
I was just asking about the feminism thing. I have two friends who are somew
hat feminists. So I see them post a lot of feminism pictures and events. Not that you do that, but you remind me of both of them. I was just curious.
I'm just gonna look weird now.
I'm going to allow you to look weird. I guess I don't know what people mean when they say feminist most of the time. There are a lot of assumptions that go with that. I don't hate anyone else - at least not strictly because of their gender. I love men. I don't think women are superior to men. I think the world needs each of us, for more than just the obvious. But I don't think women are any less than men.
Hey, is that a delorean?!
@Avery
I agree.
@Utah
Yes, yes it is haha.
Sometimes I feel like the other 2000 LitReactor profiles are just people we made up to talk to, because really, there is only like six of us on all of LR.
Hahahaha look at the leaderboards. There's like 400 members, but the site has I think 1000 fans on Facebook. I see random people join and never see their names again.
Actually I'm pretty sure it's 2500 fans on Facebook. Some people on the workshop leaderboard may have just had a membership for a month as well. And if your profile is correct, you're the 3372nd profile.
Shit, yet there's only around 6 of use on here regularly.
I have no life though, that's my excuse.
The OP of this thread is in the five thousandth user range. Crazy stuff.
All the people reading our panda porn...
Fucking lurkers...