I had a girl message me on gmail this morning. At least, I think it was a girl:
9:59 AM
melanieflurt08: hi ;)
me: Who are you?
melanieflurt08: have we chatted before? 26/female here...you?
me: Nope. I think you have the wrong e-mail.
10:00 AM
melanieflurt08: i'm sorry ..i get to be forgetful at times!! how're you??
me: I'm fine. But since I don't know you, I'm leaving.
melanieflurt08: Just got out of the shower...long day been kind of busy! but i'm feeling naughty! want to have some fun? ;)
me: No thanks. have a good day.
10:01 AM
melanieflurt08: no worries..thouhght u wanted to see me naked ..:)
me: That's sweet of you.
But no thank you.
melanieflurt08: gonna change my clothes ... want to see ? ;)
10:02 AM
me: Nope. I appreciate the offer. But I'll just go now.
melanieflurt08: (website chat link) click the gold "Join Free" button at the top of my profile.....give it a second to load ..when you get in , I'd love for you to join me in private ....k?
me: Not a chance. But, again, I do appreciate the offer. Take care. Good luck getting off.
10:03 AM
melanieflurt08: i use this site to play on cuz i don't want to be recorded !...this site doesn't allow users to record my webcam! you know?
me: Good bye
melanieflurt08: Well if you must leave... tell ya what if ya want to see me later on my cam goto (website chat link) just accept my cam invite.. Its Fast and easy.. we'll prolly be online for the rest of the day so you can go and see me on my cam. Take care
(edit - took out the links, just in case it's some scam site. Don't want to accidently spread a virus)
I'm not really into easy women (disease if nothing else), but I have no desire for a challenge. I could happily live the rest of my life on easy win after easy win. I really don't get the desire for something difficult."
That's because you don't understand the method behind the madness (I'm not saying I'm an expert). Don't get me wrong, chasing for too long is boring as shit, but so is winning too easy. She has to chase you as much as you chase her. When you work for something, you value it more.
I'm with Dwayne. That isn't to say that there aren't worthwhile things waiting at the end of many challenges, but if I was to win the lottery or inherit an obscene amount of money, I'd be happy to just work on the one challenge of getting work published for the rest of my life. And we'd all enjoy foie gras and aged whiskey at my booksignings, which would take place in hottubs and be clothes-optional.
I don't disagree with you, Matt, life has just absolutely exhausted me. There aren't many challenges I feel like I can willingly undertake without getting completely overwhelmed.
Also, the last time I really challenged myself with a woman, it was the most satisfying thing in my life ever until we ripped each other's bitter little hearts out. That kind of love is for better men than I. I don't think I've got the will for it anymore.
My "dream woman" posted this up on Craigslist. Lol.
My Intent is Love
Date: 2012-06-11, 2:31PM
My Intent is Love;)With that out front, you'll realize, a quickie isn't my speed, albeit tempting, should we be immediately attracted to one another.
No, darlin, I find quickies to be for hookups, and that is not what I'm going to call you, when I am finished with you;)
No, rather, I'll be wanting to get to know you and what you are actually about. I'll probably avoid an alcohol infused meeting with you, for our introduction.
I'll not be trying to get in your pants, the first time we meet, for this purpose, either, even if you beg me;)
I won't be looking for you to forward me pictures of you posing in your bra, in front of your mirror, with your Iphone, in hand, until the time is right. I can distinguish whether or not you are sexy. Show me your confidence in your attractiveness, instead.
If you play your cards right, I might start getting all kinds of curious about you, wondering about your day to day activities, what you are eating for breakfast, and sending you texts telling you, you've most certainly grabbed my attention. You will know with me, where you stand, and if I become ridiculously into you.
Getting my love will be a careful gift, not casually given, but I assure you, if you come to me as authentic and as true to yourself as you can, you'll have a great shot with me;)
Why did a weight-loss surgeon randomly follow me on Twitter? Is he calling me fat?
Twitter got too much for me, and so I deleted my account. I kept on having some random people follow me like some Japanese dude. Good thing I took four years of Japanese in high school.
It's great to have followers. Makes me feel loved. Although thrilled, not worth it sometimes.